How To Stop Premature Ejaculation

Let’s face it. When it comes to sex, there is a whole myriad of issues and perhaps even insecurities that we as men would face in the bedroom. But perhaps nothing comes close to the proverbial question that most men have been asking forthe longest time: how do I hold back an early ejaculation during sex?

For a woman, the ability to reach an orgasm quickly is almost a far-fetch fantasy. But for a guy, ejaculating too fast during sex is the bane that can cause even the strongest relationship to falter if the problem is not addressed. But if you are not lasting beyond 4 minutes into sex, you are not alone. You have almost 75% of the male population behind you! And you are definitely not alone in wanting to find a solution so that you can last longer and enjoy better sex.

But First, You Have To Possess The Right Mindset If You Want To Last Longer…

This is fundamentally important. It is not just about using the latest sprays, creams or ointments to give you superior stamina. It is about adopting the right paradigm and attitude during sex that will separate you from rookies who ejaculate from the word “GO” and real men who can truly master their ejaculation almost on command.

Mind Over Body

We all know that the mind controls the body, and not the other way round. Guys who climax too soon allow their bodies to rule their minds. They let the sexual stimulation get too intense to the point that they cannot stem an impending orgasm, regardless of how they try to mentally distract themselves. When you reach the “point of no return” during sex, it is too late to rein in your ejaculation.

…And The Attitude You Should Adopt

Honesty is the best policy even when it comes to sex. You don’t have to feel guilty that you are not lasting long enough for her. You just got to be honest with her that you are climaxing too soon because she has turned you on so much, and you would love to return her the favor. Women love men who have the courage to face up to their sexual inadequacies. Sex doesn’t have to end when you ejaculate! You can and SHOULD continue to give her sexual stimulation. Your penis isn’t exactly the only “tool” you have. In fact, most women hardly get an orgasm through penetrative sex. So go down on her if you like (women love oral sex) and continue to romp her erogenous spots with your fingers. This exudes sexual confidence on your part; it shows you are in control, and this turns women on!

Believe me, having confidence is that the first crucial step to curing premature ejaculation and lasting longer in bed. Be bold, and take that first step!

Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command”, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting the Ejaculation By Command here: Ejaculation By Command

Well, you’ve probably tried every trick in the book to beat premature ejaculation and increase male sexual stamina. But did you know that there are very subtle things you can do in bed that will help you last much longer? Pay close attention while I let you in on one of the best kept secrets amongst men.

Power Positioning for Enhanced Sexual Endurance

The way you transition between different sex positions can work wonders for your sexual stamina. If you can pull this off successfully, you will be able to hold back your ejaculation, as well give your partner a great time in bed! Here’s how you perform power positioning…

Kick Start: You can start off with the missionary position. This is one of the easiest sex positions to use. After you have been at it for around 2 or 3 minutes, go for a slow position change, but build it into the sex itself. For instance, you can whisper your intention sexily into her ear or just nuzzle her neck while you suggest it. Remember, SUBTLETY is the name of the game!

Roll Over: Do this slowly. Roll over to your left or right. Get her to climb on you while you lie down on your back. Continue caressing her with your hands, so that she does not lose the excitement.

Switch Up: After around 2 minutes, you will once again feel the excitement rising. Gently stretch her legs on both your sides and change her position so that her back is facing you while on top. You can continue with the stimulation in this position.

Add Variety To Your Advantage!

When you feel that you have lasted enough, and if she still hasn’t had her fulfillment from all these stimulation, you can go for other positions like the “spoon” (with both your bodies lying astride each other). Just remember, change positions frequently, so that you don’t stimulate the same area over a period of time.

There are a number of ways in which you can practice position transitioning, while continuing to enjoy the intercourse. Try and read up on books such as the Kama Sutra if you want to know more about the different positions you can enjoy during intercourse.

Finally, no matter what position you are trying out, keep your pelvic muscles relaxed and stress-free. This way, you will be able to enjoy all the different pleasures the various positions offer you, while lasting longer at the same time. And not to mention that you will have a far more fulfilling time in bed to boot!

Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command”, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting the Ejaculation By Command here: Ejaculation By Command